I’m respected. I have a beautiful home. I travel. I work obscene hours. People look at me and assume I have it all together.
But I don’t.
Not where it matters.
My relationship is… quiet.
Sex dried up years ago—or it still happens, but it feels soul-less, mechanical, disconnected.
I’m cheating, or fantasising about things I’ve never told anyone, not even myself in clear terms.
I am longing. Not just for sex, but for intimacy that feels alive
I’ve read the books.
I’ve gone to therapy.
But everything I’ve tried feels too clinical, too cliche, too surface.
What I want now is someone who can meet me in the deep end.
I need a therapist who gets that this isn’t just about sex.
It’s about the version of me I show the world… and the version of me I’ve kept hidden, because I wasn’t sure it was allowed to exist.
I don’t want worksheets.
I want insight that cracks me open.
I want someone who can read the part of me I haven’t been able to name.
Someone who isn’t shocked by anything I say, but also doesn’t bullshit me.
Someone who’s done their own work—and it shows.
Discretion and excellence are non-negotiable.
I need to know you’re not just qualified—you’re exceptional.
I need to feel that I’m walking into a room with someone who can hold intensity, intellect, eroticism, grief, and power—all without flinching.
Because I’m done with performance.
And if I’m going to finally open this door… it has to be with someone who can walk through it with me."
Who I Work With—and What They’re Carrying
"I’m 47. A partner in a law firm. Or a surgeon. Or a public figure.
It doesn’t matter. What matters is—on paper, I’ve won.
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What Our Clients Say
—Client, Male, 50s
"I came in thinking I had a sex addiction. What I left with was something I never expected—pride. In one session, you helped me see that what I was carrying wasn’t shameful, it was a search for freedom. For the first time in my life, I felt seen—and powerful."
—Client, Non-Binary, 40s
"I learned more about myself in two sessions with Anisa than I had in an entire year of meditation and self-development work. She sees what others miss—and holds it with extraordinary care."
—Client, Female, 40s
"Anisa helped me cut through fear and finally see myself with compassion. I stopped acting from defence, began listening—truly—and started loving who I am. Her presence gave me space to grow, to heal, and for the first time in a long time, to find peace."
—Client, Male, 70s
“I’m in my seventies, and after just one session with Anisa, I could finally breathe. I understood the truth behind a fantasy I had carried in shame for decades—and I was no longer afraid of it. I only wish I had found her earlier. It would have spared me years of suffering.”
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