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Issue Seven: The Subtle Violence of Unconsensual Affection I went on a date. He asked what I did. I said, “I’m a clinical sexologist.”...

A client asked me today: “How often do people come to you for a sex problem, but it turns out it’s not really about sex?” I smiled....

Let me start with a desperate confession: If I hear one more couple in my therapy room say, “Her love language is acts of service, and...

Issue Four: On Libido, Lube, and the Lies We’ve Been Told I’ve always believed that storytelling—especially the kind that dances between...

Issue Three: On Bachata, Bad Sex, and Sneezing I dance bachata. It’s sensual, alive, magnetic—and has a lot in common with sex. Let me...

Issue Two: What a jar of Vegenaise taught me about intimacy, disappearance, and remembering my worth It was a Tuesday, I think. Or maybe...

Issue One: The First Time I Was Asked About My Job Mid-Orgasm I always enjoy people’s first reaction when I tell them I’m a sexologist....

The Psychology Behind Taboo Fantasies   Have you ever been turned on by something that feels off-limits ? Maybe it’s a power dynamic that...

Have you ever wondered why sometimes you get turned on quicker than other times, or why your partner may get turned on quicker than you,...